Partly, this readjusting is due to living in a 3^rd world country trying to learn a new language for going on 6 weeks now. Gone is my control over serving myself food or choosing my own meals. Meals are served and that’s that. I often have the feeling that I better eat all of food in front of me if I like it even if I’m not hungry right then, because I might not like – or be able to eat – the next meal – for instance if I’m served pork, which I don’t eat…or tortillas and refried beans, which I can’t stomach any more of for a while. Yes, I can go out and buy a meal if I’m really not satisfied with what’s served, and sometimes I’ve had to do that to keep my green vegetable intake existent, but even then, in some towns, its difficult to buy green vegetable sides or salads in restaurants. And it’s frustrating to see all those fresh cheap fruits and veggies for sale on the streets and not be able to take them home and sauté them myself.

Most of the time, the food is delicious and I am just mentioning the meals to point out my realized control issues. So, yes this experience is teaching me about control and letting go of it. Letting go of having long hair for right now. Letting go of choosing meals. Letting go of hot showers half the time. Letting go of quiet nights and quiet mornings.

Having these contrasts in life helps me realize more strongly what I want, makes me realize that with the absence of a creative career right now, that is where I know I will head again. I would not feel satisfied going much further afield on this other path. I would not be satisfied teaching English or volunteering in an environmental association in Guatemala. I think its true what they say, it’s the contrast of situations and people in life that causes you to recognize the absence, to realize your desires, to therefore ask most poignantly and clearly for what you want, to expand in that direction and become. I am grateful for this contrast in my life right now because the comparison gives the necessary new perspective and need to ask.

My desire is to create.

For the fall, I ask for a job that allows me to be creative, to work on creative projects. I ask for the opportunity to continue my design education in a hands-on fashion, which will open the doors to a life of creating and creativity! That hope causes excitement inside. I ask for the opportunity to be creative this summer too, in my spiritual internship. I have rekindled excitement for my upcoming summer internship and the opportunity for contemplative work, spiritual growth, time of preparation and working on myself before re-embarking on a creative profession direction.

All of this realizing

all of a sudden

all because of a bad haircut.

Who I thought I was.

Who I am.

Who I really am.

And with the cancellations that happened left and right this past Friday through Sunday – class cancelled on Friday, bad haircut sat, cancelled field trip Sunday because the bus never showed up, I ended up working solidly on my portfolio as ideas came that Friday night and then more ideas rushed in the next night for a website. Even if I don’t use those exact ideas, as I’m sure they will evolve a lot, at least ideas are arriving and the creative door feels open.

There is a grey tabby kitten in the house. El gatito. I feel akin to it. It is alone a lot and meows often on the steps for its mother, which is far away in another city. Probably its littermates live in that other city too. When I go down the stairs, I take time to pet it and sometimes to hold it in my lap. But then its meows are even more pitiful when I leave then before I held it, before it knew how good petting felt. El gatito must feel some uprooting of identity too. Once the desire comes, once the mind is at work comparing two situations, the one its now experiencing and the one its had a glimpse of, can it go back? Not without being dissatisfied I think.

I’m just now remembering a fitting dream that I had last night. I didn’t know I’d had it until this moment. A group of friends and I and family members were going up in the sky in individual hot air balloons. I was in mine taking off from the cliff edge and rising fast, but not out of control like some of the other balloons who were going dangerously into the low oxygen zone. I felt exhilaration for the ride and the view and I was wrapping a white fur robe around my shoulders to keep the cold air out.